Simple Living With Non-Minimalists
the ultimate guide to living with less, even when others don’t
Make minimalism work in the real world
Let go of clutter without arguments
Handle spending, gifts & pressure with ease
For those who value less,
but are surrounded by more.
Do you and your partner see clutter differently?
Do your relatives often give you things you don’t actually need?
Is it exhausting being the only one trying to live with less?
You’re not alone. I’ve been there too. My partner and I share many values, but our approach to physical things is very different.
I’ve also been the only minimalist in my family and social circles. Saying no to gifts, feeling pressure to spend on things I don’t need, and staying true to myself when my lifestyle felt “too different” wasn’t always easy.
This guide comes from those experiences. It’s here to help you stay confident, have fewer arguments, and feel more at peace in your own home.
This is
Simple Living with non-minimalists:
the ultimate guide
Layer 1: Living in Harmony With a Non-Minimalist
How to live with less even if your partner, roommate, or family member doesn’t share your values
Learn how to create calm shared spaces, reduce silent resentment, and communicate your needs without trying to “convert” anyone
Includes minimalist and non-minimalist type profiles to help you better understand each other
Layer 2: Handling Family, Friends & Social Pressure
Learn how to stay true to your values in the face of gift culture, social pressure, family traditions, and spending expectations
How to set boundaries and reject without creating tension
Helps you to stop over-explaining and find real confidence within
Layer 3: Living Simply in a Consumerist World
Learn how to protect your peace in a society built on more: more stuff, more status, more comparison
This layer challenges the internalized beliefs about success, self-worth, and productivity that often pull minimalists off track
You’ll learn how to re-center yourself, and stay minimalist without burnout
With the guide, you will get access to:
60+ pages of honest, structured support in an easy-to-read format. Instant download, and it works on any device, so you can read it on your phone, tablet, or laptop.
Digital version
A simplified layout made for printing at home. Fewer visuals, no colors, and more space for notes. Ink-friendly :)
Printable Version
Workbook-style reflections and space to write. Thoughtfully designed to deepen the experience and help you make a lasting shift.
Worksheets & Exercises
A version of the guide you can listen to during chores or while resting. Great if you prefer audio learning or want to revisit sections without screen time.
Audio Version
bonus materials
you’ll also get
Bonus 1 - Minimalist Gift Ideas Sheet
A cheat sheet with clutter-free gift suggestions and alternative ideas. Perfect for holidays, birthdays, or when people want to give but you’d rather not receive more stuff.
Bonus 2 - Conversation Starters & examples
Helpful phrases and ways to express your values with calm in everyday situations, especially when people don’t get it.
Bonus 3 - Strategies, tools & Challenges
A list of minimalist ideas you can experiment with. No overwhelming habits, just gentle practices to help you stay on track and gently introduce simplicity into your shared space.
Bonus 4 - Access to my private Discord Group
Simple Living Society - A private space to connect with like-minded people who are walking the same path. Ask questions, share progress, or just feel less alone on this path.
This guide is right for you if…
You live with someone who doesn’t share your minimalist values
You feel like the “odd one out” in your family or social circle
You struggle with gifts, traditions, or social expectations, and want to handle them with more clarity and confidence.
You’re looking for something more in-depth and practical than a YouTube video or blog post, something that actually helps you take action.
This Guide is NOT right for you if…
You want a quick read with no reflection, depth, or inner work
You aren't willing to complete the exercises and take action on what you've learned
You expect others to change before you’re willing to shift your own mindset, perspective, or approach when it comes to different ways to live
You’re looking for minimalist home design tips (this guide focuses on peace, boundaries, and real-life simplicity, not aesthetics)
Guide
faq
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My videos are a great starting point, but this guide goes deeper. It’s structured, actionable, and designed to help you apply what you learn directly to your own life. You’ll find reflection prompts, exercises, and practical scripts that don’t exist anywhere else. It’s not just inspiration, it’s a step-by-step tool.
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Absolutely. You don’t need to label yourself as a minimalist to benefit from this guide. If you’re simply trying to live with more clarity, less stress, and fewer distractions, this will support you.
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Yes, many parts of the guide still apply. Even if you don’t share your space, you’re still interacting with friends, family, and a culture that might not share your values. The sections on social pressure, expectations, and staying grounded in your values are just as relevant.
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No, you can absolutely start with whatever feels most urgent or relevant to your life right now. That said, if all three layers speak to you, I recommend moving through them in order. The structure is intentional and builds on itself in a natural way.
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That really depends on your pace. You could read through it in a couple of sittings, but the real value comes from doing the exercises and reflecting along the way. If you take your time and work through each layer thoughtfully, I’d imagine you will spend 1–3 weeks moving through it, but there’s no rush. It’s designed to be flexible and meet you where you are.
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Since this is a digital product with instant download and forever access, I don’t offer refunds. I’ve poured a lot into making this guide thoughtful, practical, and genuinely useful, and I trust that if you’re drawn to it, it’s because you’re ready for what it offers. I also want to keep things simple and fair for both of us, so please take your time reading the description before buying. If it feels like a good fit, I’m sure you’ll get a lot out of it.
